America’s Crisis of Social Connection, With Adam Grant artwork
Plain English with Derek Thompson

America’s Crisis of Social Connection, With Adam Grant

Oct 13, 2026 · 1 hr 3 min

Americans spend more time alone than ever, as parties, nights out with friends, and dinner gatherings become less common. Cellphones, social media, TV, and the internet have made it easier than ever to fill our free time without other people. Research suggests friendship is less about instant chemistry than repeated time together. It takes roughly 50 hours to turn an acquaintance into a casual fr…